The Wave

The feelings hit me 

like a wave on the beach 

engulfing me and 

stealing my breath. 

Time continues to pass, 

yet most of the time 

I feel as if I am watching 

and not participating .. 

not living .. 

just existing. 

But why?  

What is the purpose?



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